Lately I have had the opposite of the hag experience, dream girl, blond/red hair, visits me a month ago, and the last two nights, she chases me and loves me just as I am.
No, those are something else. The succubus / incubus does not only reside in dream states. It can be understood as an activation of part of the subtle body that persists for some period of time, in both sleeping and waking states. It has the same larger influence of an externalized consciousness or inverted projection of the senses cast upon it like the "night-mare" creature. All the subtle centers can be activated in such ways.